Last post…

29 Apr

As my junior year at Purdue comes to a close and summer approaches, I just want to say thanks to all of you who read my blog and inspired me in my posts.

This will be my last blog post on “About A Sorority Girl.” It’s been a great semester writing for y’all and I hope you all will follow me on my new blog for my internship this summer!

I will be interning for Pearson Education in Chicago, Ill. this summer as an Internal Communication Intern. I have not yet received my blog domain but here is a blog from the interns of 2011. I will post my link to this blog post once I receive it!

I hope that I have entertained y’all as much as I have entertained myself while writing this blog.

My last parting words of wisdom are, whether you go Greek or not, look at both sides of the issue before deciding. I hope my blog has helped you in your perception of Greeks!

Have a great summer and thank you so much!

Grand Alternative Overview

25 Apr

Like many of y’all, I had a fantastic time last week enjoying the weather, hanging out with my friends and attending Grand Prix and Grand Alternative events.

I was able to attend the Grand Grill-out sponsored by the Interfraternity Council, Panhellenic Council and Old Masters and held at the Kappa Alpha Theta sorority’s parking lot.

Excuse the pun, but it was a grand ol’ time! There was an abundance of great, FREE food, great live music and games to win Southern Tide merchandise.

Attendee Alex Guerra and Southern Tide Ambassador Brian Lee pose for a picture after Guerra won a bottle sock.

Grand Alternative was established in 1998 by a campus minister who wanted the student body to focus on friendship and bonding rather than drinking themselves sick during Grand Prix.Since then, Grand Alternative has evolved into a big event sponsored by various student organizations and the Office of the Dean of Students.

I can truly vouch that Grand Prix week has a lot of serious competition with Grand Alternative.

The only thing Grand Alternative is lacking from Grand Prix is alcohol. Grand Alternative is completely substance-free and all its events are free as well!

Here’s what you missed out if you didn’t attend the Grand Grill-out!

What was your favorite part of Grand Alternative? Leave me a comment!

Things to do during the summer!

24 Apr

As the semester is winding down, a lot of you may wonder what philanthropies or Greek-related events you can attend. So here is my event guide for the summer!

  • RECRUITMENT SHOPPING: You can do this at any time during the summer! A lot of sororities assign their sisters look books for what they need to wear during recruitment. Rules and the dress code for recruitment is VERY strict so don’t take shopping too lightly!
  • CONVENTION: Sororities all across the nation have national conventions in which representatives from each chapter convene together for a weekend of sisterhood and bonding. During these conventions, sisters learn a lot of new things from different chapters. Ask your chapter president if you can attend!
  • OPEN HOUSES: During the last week of summer, sororities have an open house day where PNMs are allowed to come and tour the house before recruitment. If you are someone interested in rushing, definitely check out the open houses and see the sisters in their natural, candid environment!
  • REGISTRATION: After attending the open houses, if you are definitely interested in rushing, register online by Aug. 21! There is a nonrefundable registration fee so be sure this is something you want to do.

If you know of any events going on in the area, leave a comment and I’ll share it on this post!

Did you know?: Tri Delta Edition

21 Apr

Throughout the semester, I have highlighted different fraternities and sororities and have tried to stay away from focusing solely on the sorority I am a part of, Delta Delta Delta.

However since it is recruitment practice season and we’re all learning interesting and fun facts about our respective houses, I wanted to share some facts about Tri Delta that I have recently learned!

Did you know…

  • Tri Delta was the first women’s fraternity to be founded as a national organization with complete plans for governmental structure and expansion.
  • Tri Delta was the first women’s fraternity to hold a national Leadership Conference.

  • Tri Delta has over 210,000 initiated members.

  • Currently there are 139 chapters at universities across the US and Canada.

  • Tri Delta was the first sorority to plan an alumni system.

  • The Trident, the Tri Delta magazine, has been continuously published since 1891.

  • It was said that when Neil Armstrong went to the moon, he left both his pledge pin and his wife’s (who was a Tri-Delta). So we can say Tri-Delta was the first Sorority on the moon!

  •  Since 1974, Tri Deltas have raised more than $10 million in support of children’s cancer hospitals and research facilities.

  • We use one letter, three times over, because our letters are the same both ways; when you look at them in the mirror, you see them in their true form, representing that in Tri Delta, we show true reflections of ourselves.

  • 71% of “Who’s Who in America ” are Greek. There are more listed for Tri Delta than any other sorority.

    Share some fun facts about your fraternity or sorority! Leave me comments :).

PREVIEW!: Grand Alternative

19 Apr

Amid the inflatable bouncy houses and littering of beer cans, there are substance-free, more wholesome events you can attend in celebrating Grand Prix!

Grand Prix is a time to relax, hang out with friends and bask in the good weather. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to partake in dangerous binge drinking activities and show up to class drunk.

Thus, we have Grand Alternative!

Grand Alternative is a substance-free week of events that coincides with Grand Prix week. It was first started in 1998 by Steve Cain, a campus minister. Cain initiated a community-wide coalition of student groups with the goal of celebrating the Grand Prix safely and without alcohol.

Now Grand Alternative is a campus-wide event sponsored by Office of the Dean of Students, with the support of several student organizations and departments.

Check out the free events listed below!

Schedule for Thursday, April 19th:

  • 5-8 p.m. Grand Grillout. Kappa Alpha Theta parking lot. Live music, basketball and sand volleyball, hot dogs and hamburgers will be featured. Sponsored by Caliber, Interfraternity Council, Old Masters and the Panhellenic Association.
  • 7 p.m. The Trevor Project Improv Comedy Show. Wetherill Laboratory of Chemistry, Room 172. Sponsored by Gamma Rho Lambda.
  • 7 p.m. That’s Hott! Performance Night. Fowler Hall in Stewart Center. Talent show featuring dancers and singers. Sponsored by Delta Pi Rho.

Schedule for Friday, April 20th:

  • 9 p.m. to 1 a.m. Parking Lot Luau. Fairway Cooperative, corner of Stadium and David Ross Road. Outdoor dance luau with music, snacks, sand volleyball and inflatables. Sponsored by Fairway Cooperative (The Acres).
  • Grand Alternative Carnival Night. 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. Slayter Hill. Special events include Battle of the Bands, midway games and crafts, caricature artist, crafts, free food, funnel cakes, and inflatables. Sponsored by the Purdue Student Union Board and Division of Recreational Sports.

Schedule for Saturday, April 21st:

  • 55th Grand Prix Race. 10:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Grand Prix Track, near corner of Cherry Lane and McCormick Road. Free shuttle service from 8 a.m. until 6 p.m., running to and from Wiley Hall, the Memorial Mall side of Stewart Center and Ross-Ade parking lot.
  • 9 p.m. Movie on the Hill. Slayter Hill (Rain location is Fowler Hall in Stewart Center).
  • 6:30 p.m. to 1 a.m. Rock the Quad. Parking lot under Ross-Ade Stadium scoreboard. For band information, visit http://www.caryclub.org/rtq. Sponsored by Cary Club.

Are there any other events going on for Grand Alternative? Leave a comment!

Hazing: Confessions of a Sorority Girl

17 Apr

Hazing is such a serious topic but at times is taken so lightly. The dictionary defines hazing as any action to “subjection to harassment or ridicule.”

However some fraternity and sorority members will define hazing as something that brings themselves and their pledge brothers or sisters together, an act that continues tradition. Rarely does an inside member speak out about hazing. It takes something as horrible as a death of a Greek member for allegation of hazing to pour out.

It didn’t take a death for Andrew Lohse, a member of the Dartmouth chapter of Sigma Alpha Epsilon, to speak out on his chapter’s hazing practices. It took him realizing that he had an alcohol problem for him to withdraw from Dartmouth. This is when his idea for an editorial formed.

Andrew Lohse outside of his fraternity's house at Dartmouth College. (Photo courtesy of The Rolling Stones magazine.)

Lohse detailed his accounts of hazing in an op-ed piece for Jan. 25 issue of The Dartmouth, the university’s student newspaper, much to the chagrin of his fraternity brothers. His story eventually got picked up by The Rolling Stones magazine and was featured in a six-page cover story, “Confessions of an Ivy League Frat Boy.”

Lohse alleged that he and his pledge brothers were forced to consume vomit and swim in fecal matters during their pledgeship at SAE. In his column, he suggested that the Greek system at Dartmouth be completely abolished.

At a college where more than 50 percent of its student body is involved with Greek life, his allegations did not bode well. Lohse was called a liar and a diagrace to the Greek community and to SAE. He was even compared to the stripper who falsely accused the Duke lacrosse team of rape.

Lohse’s column prompted an investigation into the Greek system at Dartmouth and 27 individuals at SAE were charged with hazing. These charges were all dropped on March 30th after Lohse declined to further work with investigators because he did not approve of “throwing 27 guys under the bus” because he felt that would be “a travesty of justice, when hundreds of people do this and will continue to do this with impunity.”

The ironic part of all of this is that Lohse may be the one who is ultimately charged with hazing and can be expelled from Dartmouth. Since he publicly admitted that he was part of the hazing cycle, Dartmouth can press charges on Lohse for being involved in hazing activities.

Though hazing is not tolerated here at Purdue, one can only imagine what effect Lohse’s situation would have on the Greek community. No one would dare to blow the whistle on their fraternity or sorority on hazing charges in fear that they would be the one convicted.

I can honestly say that I have never been a victim of hazing. I have never been pressured to drink or do things I am not comfortable with and I certainly have never forced another sister to do anything against her will.

However hazing is present at Purdue. Last year a fraternity was kicked off our campus due to hazing charges and other infractions.

The fact that hazing is still present is ridiculous to me. How can one foster fraternal bonds when forcing each other to perform inhumane acts?

Hazing is considered as a crime in 44 states. Although Purdue has a pretty extensive no-hazing policy, I believe it needs to add a whistleblower clause so that if a member of the Greek community suffers from hazing and come forth, they are protected from being charged.

Otherwise the vicious cycle of hazing will only continue until a drastic event occurs to bring the issue to light.

What are your thoughts on this issue? Please leave a comment.

Best Letter Organizations for Future CEOs!

14 Apr

As I have said before being in a letter organization can open the door to a world of possibilities. Forbes Magazine published an article about the best fraternities for future CEOs in 2009.

Photo courtesy of Google.

According to the article, a quarter of CEOs were in Greek organizations when they were in college. Successful CEOs have said the social skills they gained through recruitment and their membership greatly attributed to their success and rise in the corporate world.

The best fraternities to be in for future CEOs, according to Forbes, are Beta Theta Pi, Sigma Alpha Epsilon, Sigma Chi, Lambda Chi Alpha and Alpha Tau Omega. Beta leads the pack with 11 CEOs on the Forbes 500 list.

Another aspect of Greek life that gives its members a leg-up in the “real world” is the extensive alumni network members can tap into after graduating. Alumni are more likely to recruit from their own letter organizations.

Who are some famous CEOs from your letter organizations? Leave me a comment!

“Tips” for Grand Prix

13 Apr

Vacant seats in lecture, loud frat music and the littering of red cups – it’s Grand Prix week. A week rarely remembered but always anticipated by the majority of Purdue students.

Photo Courtesy of Brian Lee.

Here is a compilation of students’ not-so-intelligent behaviors I’ve observed from my Grand Prix experiences.

  •  Don’t go to class: Class is overrated. Why would any wholesome Purdue student spend a beautiful day inside when they could be outside drinking a refreshing alcoholic beverage? This is a common mentality of many students during Grand Prix. When else will you get to blatantly drink during the day with your fellow Boilermakers?
  • Enjoy the beautiful weather: The weather forecast for Grand Prix is blue skies and sunshine with some rain. Enjoy the cool weather while it lasts by sitting out on the numerous frat benches and sliding down makeshift slip and slides. If you’re feeling real crazy, visit the many inflatable bounce houses and reminisce of your birthday parties as a child.
  • Wear the same frat tank or jersey the whole week: Professors and the fellow students in your classes aren’t going to care if you were the same beer-stained shirt to class every day. If you are really hardcore, avoid taking showers, too. The water you use to shower is needed to maintain the slip and slides.
  • Use “it’s Grand Prix” as an excuse for everything: Didn’t show up for a class? It’s Grand Prix! Woke up dazed and confused in a parking garage? It’s Grand Prix! Don’t remember your last name? It’s Grand Prix! (This is also a legitimate excuse to take tests and turn in papers at a later date.)

In all seriousness, try to refrain from being arrested and stay hydrated this Grand Prix. Avoid walking down main streets where Excise and WLPD will be stationed. Be smart enough not to carry around open containers of alcoholic beverages outside and please don’t take them to class.

Grand Prix is a great time to let loose and relieve pent-up stress from the semester but it’s also important to stay safe …  and alive.

National Poetry Month: Greek edition

10 Apr

As an ode to National Poetry Month, I wanted to highlight individuals from the Greek community who really influenced the literary world in a big way.

Here are some renown poets and authors who were involved with fraternity and sorority life during their years at college!

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Robert Frost was a Theta Delta Chi at Dartmouth College. Frost won four Pulitzer Prizes for his work along with being awarded honorary degrees from over 40 different college and universities. Frost is acknowledged to be America’s unofficial poet laureate.

Photo courtesy of Google.

Pearl S.Buck, best known for her book, “The Good Earth”, which won her a Pulitzer Prize, was a Kappa Delta at Randolph Macon’s Women’s College. Buck lived in China for most of her life and her works reflect her experiences during China’s tumultuous times. Buck’s crowning achievement in the literary field was being awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1938.

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Harper Lee was a Chi Omega at the University of Alabama. Lee’s only novel, “To Kill A Mockingbird” is a required read for nearly all middle schools in the nation. It also won her a Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2007.

Photo courtesy of Google.

Lauren Weisburger best known for her novel, “The Devil Wears Prada” was an Alpha Epsilon Pi at Cornell University. Her fiction novel is said to closely follow her experience as an assistant to famed Vogue editor-in-chief, Anna Wintour.

Other authors who were in sororities are Anne Rivers Siddons, Delta Delta Delta; Joyce Carol Oates, Phi Mu; Judith Guest, Sigma Kappa; Bille Letts, Sigma Sigma Sigma and Eve K. Sandstrom aka Joanna Carl, Alpha Gamma Delta.

So those of you who dream to become famous poets and authors, write on and maybe you’ll be featured in a blog one day :).

Flaws within Sorority Recruitment

7 Apr

Stay clear of sorority houses during these last few weeks of the semester; you may get your ears blasted with loud screaming and cheering.

Sororities here on campus are gearing up for recruitment in the fall starting now. Intensive training and mandatory workshops are scheduled in with studying for final exams and writing papers.

Being a member of a sorority and having participated on both sides of recruitment, I feel as though sororities could learn a few things from fraternity recruitment.

For one thing, sorority women are preparing for five days of recruitment four months in advance. Sorority recruitment takes place over a short period of two weekends during which women attend “parties” that span from 25 minutes to an hour.

Within these 25 minutes to an hour you need to make a strong, solid first impression in hopes of being invited back the next day. It is nearly impossible to convey your personality to questions such as, “what’s your major?” and, “what did you do this summer?”

Furthermore, the first two days consist of open houses where you simply tour all the sorority houses from morning until nightfall. Your first impression of a sorority is not the personalities or demeanor of the women but how loud they can cheer and how nice the house is.

These days seem insufficient and superficial. Potential new members should not choose what house they would like to return to based off the interior decor and how much air capacity the women have in their lungs.

On the other hand, the fraternity recruitment system seems to be a lot less stressful and more low-key. Any men interested in rushing a fraternity can attend social events where they get to meet and hang out with the brothers. If they don’t like the fraternity, they can leave and don’t ever have to come back.

If a woman doesn’t like a sorority but gets asked back, she must attend that sorority’s party or she will be forced to drop out of recruitment.

Also, potential new fraternity men can receive bids from multiple fraternities and then get to choose from the bids that they have received.

The women receive only one bid from one sorority. If they do not like the sorority that they were given a bid by, they can repeat the recruitment cycle again in the spring or the upcoming fall.

Fraternity recruitment seems a lot more personable and relaxed than the tenseness and frenzy of sorority recruitment. Joining a house is a great way to meet new people and find a niche at Purdue.

However the recruitment process for women should be more enjoyable and less stressful so that each woman is ensured to be in the right house for them.

Leave a comment with your thoughts!